hey, its ok!

...to get the dress, then decide to throw the party.

...to let your more-employed friend buy lunch.

...to not make it past best supporting actor.

...to stop in the heat of the moment and remove your own control-top tights, thank you.

...to rely on commercials for all your new music. (thanks cadillac SRX - that phoenix song rules).

...to buy sexy lingerie and call it your valentines gift to yourself.

...to run in really ugly sweatpants while singing along on your ipod. (hey - youre running. in winter!).

...to refuse to date any man who puts his blackberry out on the table during a meal.